Exploring BDSM With Your Partner
If you want to add a little bit more kinkiness to your love life, why not have some fun experimenting and shopping?
Itching to get a little kinkier in the bedroom? More and more couples are adding some pretty hardcore BDSM play to their sex lives – so could you be about to join them? Here’s everything that you need to know about adding a little more excitement to your love life.
Do your research
If you want to further explore BDSM, why not do some research? There are so many resources out there, from welcoming online communities to BDSM erotica. Try to find out as much as you can about more advanced play. This will not only allow you to find out more about what you would like to experiment with, but will also allow you to read up on practising BDSM safely with a partner. So do some investigating!
Go shopping!
Once you are sure what kind of BDSM play you would like to indulge in, then it’s time to start shopping! Many people prefer to shop online for bondage goods, as it means they won’t run into anyone they know, and they won’t have to deal with any overzealous sales staff. Surrender London BDSM are a firm favourite with shoppers all over the UK. You can treat yourself to a bondage kit that contains everything you need, or opt for individual items that catch your eye.
Discuss with your partner
If you are going to take your kinky play to the next level, it’s important that you keep your partner as involved as possible. Some BDSM play can be quite intense, and some people aren’t ready to jump into it straight away. So take the time to talk to your partner to make sure that they are on the same page as you, and introduce changes at a pace that’s perfect for both of you. If you were to ask us, a great relationship is always based on great communication – so chat away!
Have some fun
If there are quite a few things that you want to explore, and your partner is comfortable with all of them, then why not line up a few things to try? You could make a list and work your way through them, or make things a little more fun and choose a new BDSM activity at random whenever you are both in the mood. Exploration and experimentation are the easiest ways of finding out what you both like, so go wild!
Stay open-minded
As you are introducing more BDSM to your sex life, it’s important to keep an open mind. There may be things that are much better on paper than when practised in real life, and there may be things that you love but your partner isn’t on board with. There’s no need to feel upset or embarrassed if something goes awry – finding out what doesn’t work means that we’re much clearer on the things that do.
What are you waiting for?
Now that you know how to add some kinkiness to your sex life, why not start having some fun and finding out what you like today? Practise makes perfect after all – and we’re sure you won’t mind giving a few different things a go!
