A New Year, A New Attitude to Sex – A lack of sex can be frustrating and worrying – but with a little effort, you can be back to normal in no time at all.
When it comes to your sex life, going through a dry spell is no fun at all. We’ve all been there – and while it doesn’t mean that there’s anything wrong with your relationship, it’s a sign that all is not well between the sheets. This could be down to anything, from distance to busy schedules. Over time, a lack of good sex can lead to problems elsewhere in your relationship, so this is definitely an area where there is always room for improvement. Luckily, we’re on hand to tell you how to take your sex life from stranded to stratospheric!
So much to do, so little time
If you’re both juggling busy careers as well as social lives and hobbies, there can sometimes be little time left for each other. It’s a good idea then to make some time just for the two of you. This could be once a week or once a month – but once you’ve arranged it, stick to it! A night in can re-ignite that spark, or perhaps you can go all out and treat yourselves to a weekend in a luxury hotel. Whatever you decide, you’ll be having much better sex if you’re not trying to squeeze it in between everything else.
Love over a long distance
Distance can put a real dampener on your love life. Going ages without seeing your partner isn’t ideal but there are ways that you can get around it. Technology is a wonderful thing – and all you need to have some long distance fun is your phone! Adult phone chat is great way of having some mutual fun with your partner, and being able to hear them really makes it intimate. Other tools such as picture messaging and Skype let you take advantage of all those visual turn-ons, perfect if you miss looking at your partner as much as you do talking to them.
The seven year itch
If you’re not busy or far away from each other, it may just be a case of your love life getting a little stale. When you’re together for a long time and you don’t experiment much in the bedroom, sex can become boring. So how about trying something new every day this month? Knowing that no night is going to be the same will certainly add some excitement to your sex life. If you want to start off slowly though, how about just doing some shopping together? Buying some new goodies for the bedroom will make you look forward to sex again. Whether it’s some new undies, a cheeky flavoured lube or even something very naughty like a whip and some handcuffs – there’s something out there for everyone.
Make 2015 a year to remember!
Now that you know how to banish that bedroom boredom, there’s no reason why 2015 can’t be the year you started having the best sex of your life. It doesn’t matter how old you are or how busy you are – when there’s a will there’s certainly a way! So why not take a leap this January? By trying something new, you could not only be salvaging your sex life, but also your relationship. Now if there’s one New Year’s resolution that’s worth keeping, it’s got to be that one!