Your Guide to Finding Miss Right

When you’re a lesbian, getting into the dating game can seem impossible. It’s not as hard as it seems though! 

Dating is never easy, that’s a given. When you’re a woman dating other women though, that intensifies. There can sometimes be doubts over whether a date actually is, well, a date. Then there can be the difficulty in choosing an appropriate place to meet. Things like these alongside the everyday nerves associated with asking a girl out can be enough to put anyone off for life! Fear not though. In this little guide, you’ll find out everything you need to know to up your dating game.

Is she, isn’t she?

It’s the eternal question – is she interested in a romantic way, or does she just want to be friends? A lot of women spend time relying on their ‘gaydar’; that near mythical sixth sense of finding out if the girl you’re crushing on is a lesbian. The problem is, she’s probably doing the same thing – just staring at you intently and waiting for some kind of divine intervention. So forget the gaydar; it does nothing in this scenario, except delay you from making a move! You need to go about things the old fashioned way. Yes, we mean talking to her. Just a “Hi, how are you?” or “I haven’t seen you here before!” will give you a much better idea of if she’s interested or not. If she is, go for it and ask her out!

The date

Once you’ve bagged yourself a date, it’s time to think about where to take her. Dinner and a trip to the cinema seems like an obvious option – but something a little different is good too. A picnic in the park is a cute option, while a gig at a local pub is great for music fans. Once you’ve decided on a date, focus on your game plan. Lesbian dating has plenty of dos and don’ts – some the same as straight couples, some not. Don’t skimp on paying for some drinks and definitely don’t talk about your ex. Don’t take her to your favourite girl bar either! The last thing she wants to feel is that she’s just accompanying you while you’re on the prowl. You could also run into some of your friends too – a bit full on for a first date!

An alternative

Diana - Blue Chip girls bi escortIf you’re not sure that you want to make the leap into dating just yet, there is another option. There are plenty of lesbian escort agencies out there that cater for lesbians, where you can spend some quality time with an experienced lesbian, such as Diana, pictured here. Hiring an escort is a great idea for quite a few reasons. Firstly, it’s no-strings. If you’re just looking for female company and a little fun, there’s no pressure to commit to a second date with an escort.

Secondly, it’s a great way of exploring your desires in a safe environment, with a woman who specialises in making other women feel good. Thirdly, it will boost your confidence. If you’ve only just come out or you’ve been away from the dating scene for a little while, you may be feeling a little nervous. Spending time with an escort will allow you to get used to being close to another woman, and let you hone some of your romantic skills!

Seize the day!

Now that you know how to get started, there should be no stopping you finding the girl of your dreams. Whether you jump straight in at the deep end or dip your toes in the water with an escort, you can look forward to having plenty of fun. So what are you waiting for? The world is your oyster!